Justice, Vengeance, and the Consequences of Grief: A Reflection and Review of "The Song of Achilles"

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Right off the bat - 10/10 book

Madeline Miller’s The Song of Achilles isn’t just a retelling of an ancient Greek myth—it’s a meditation on the nature of love, loyalty, and the human condition. At its core, the story explores the ways in which our emotions shape us, and how unchecked grief or rage can take on a life of its own, leading us to a place of destruction rather than redemption.

The relationship between Patroclus and Achilles is one of the most profound aspects of the novel. Patroclus, with his quiet strength and unwavering loyalty, challenges Achilles to become a better man—not one defined merely by power or glory, but by kindness, self-awareness, and the ability to lead with his heart. It’s Patroclus’ love that encourages Achilles to look beyond his role as a warrior, to question the meaning of his legacy, and ultimately to consider the impact of his actions on those around him.

However, after Patroclus’ death, the very qualities that once made Achilles human—his capacity for empathy, love, and reflection—are consumed by a singular drive for vengeance. What begins as a search for justice becomes something darker, as Achilles allows his grief and anger to shape his every action. His rage is no longer about righting a wrong but about reclaiming a sense of control over a world that has turned cruel and senseless. In doing so, he becomes disconnected from the very humanity that once defined him.

Statue of Ancient Greek Warrior

This transformation serves as a cautionary tale, not just about the destructive nature of vengeance but about the dangerous path of self-righteousness. It’s not enough to simply seek justice—one must consider why they pursue it and the cost of that pursuit. Achilles’ inability to seek counsel from those who loved him, or to allow his grief to be tempered by compassion and reflection, leads him down a path of isolation and regret. In his quest to avenge Patroclus, he forgets the lesson Patroclus would have wanted him to learn: that true greatness isn’t defined only by the battles we win or the enemies we destroy, but by the relationships we nurture and the choices we make in moments of profound pain.

The Song of Achilles challenges us to examine how we respond to loss and injustice. It’s easy to fall into the trap of vengeance, to become consumed by the need to right a wrong at any cost. But the novel reminds us that there’s a fine line between justice and retribution, and that once we cross it, we risk losing ourselves in the process. It’s only through introspection, compassion, and the wisdom of those we trust that we can find a path toward healing, rather than further harm.

Thank your for reading my book review/reflection of "The Song of Achilles."